Why Gender Identity Matters

In the words of Kwame Anthony Appiah:

“In sum, identities come first, with labels and ideas why and to whom they should be applied. Second, your identity shapes your thoughts about how you should behave; and, third, it affects the way other people treat you. Finally, all these dimensions of identity are contestable, always up for dispute: who’s in, what they’re like, how they should behave and be treated.”

Notice that “your identity shapes your thoughts about how you should behave.” Think of the times we are told, “Little girls don’t act that way.” Or “big boys don’t cry.”

Says Who?

Now ask the question nobody is supposed to ask, “Says who?” Who says boys can’t try and girls can’t play with trucks? Well, who decreed it?

The patriarchy sold it to society, and now it is a social construct. By patriarchy, I mean “a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it” (OED).

Yes, patriarchy is a real thing. And yes, patriarchy is bad. “For centuries,” writes Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, “the world divided human beings into two groups and then proceeded to exclude and oppress one group.”

Do I really have to tell you that this is wrong? That is why I am a feminist. I believe women have equal rights with men and should be allowed to do whatever men do, with the same rate of pay.

Women and LGBTQ+

Identity also “affects the way other people treat you.” I was happy that 2021 saw Kamala Harris sworn in as the 49th vice president of the United States.

It took so long because, until recently, women were not considered capable of leading. But the role of women is slowly changing. Unfortunately, under the Trump administration, we’re taking steps backwards.

But the LGBTQ+ people are still struggling to improve “the way other people treat” them. And of these people, the trans community is the least accepted. They are the most persecuted group in the United States today, and they’re some of the most loving people.

This ongoing and unslowing epidemic of violence committed against transgender and gender non-conforming people continues to climb and claim the lives of too many each year in the United States and across the globe (GLAAD).

Transgender

As Kathryn Gonzales and Karen Rayne explain:

“Gender is a social construct that assigns people roles, tasks, responsibilities, and expected ways of being in the world.”

Biological Sex

Biological sex is not the same thing as gender identity. This is the hardest thing for some people to understand.

Biological sex is not something you choose. You are born with male or female genitalia. Some are born with both.

Gender Identity

Gender identity is one’s own internal sense of who they are. They know this to be true regardless of what others say. This is also something they do not choose. They are born that way.

Gender identity is not just a masculine and feminine thing. It is more complicated. I will only mention nonbinary here as an example.

Now, in a small minority of people, their biological sex and their gender identity do not match. These people are known as transgender. This is how they were born. It is not something they choose.

Honor Trans-People

Just because you do not have this mismatch of sex and gender, doesn’t mean that everybody is like you. That’s just ignorant. It is important to honor people for trying to be honest about who they are.

It’s frustrating to see them persecuted, when they’re hurting nobody. They’re just trying to be who they’re created to be. They are real and their experiences are real. I don’t care what bigoted Christians say.

References

Kathryn Gonzales and Karen Rayne, Trans+: Love, Sex, Romance, and Being You. Washington, DC: Magination Press, 2019.

God and Gender

“God is not a man” (Numbers 23:19 NKJV).

The true God does not have a body, and therefore does not have male or female sex organs. God has no biology, so God cannot be a biological male or female. God is not literally a Father, Mother, Son, or Daughter.

Sex and Gender

But if we are going to talk about gender, we must make a distinction between sex and gender. “Gender,” states the World Health Organization, “refers to the characteristics of women, men, girls and boys that are socially constructed.”

Sex refers to a person’s physical anatomy such as sex organs, sex chromosomes and internal reproductive structures. Gender identity is the inner feelings of whether you’re female or male, both, or neither. This is separate from biological sex.

Is God a Male?

So what gender is God? It depends, are we talking about God’s self view or are we talking about society’s projection unto God. Because of the male patriarchy, God is usually portrayed as male. This is not God’s self identity.

The fact is that in the Bible, God is never directly referred to as being female. This is probably because all the authors were males with a male centric view of things. However, there are times when the feminine slips in under the radar.

The Feminine

For example, it says that “God created humans in his image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them (Gen 1:26–27). Here, God’s image is both “male and female.”

And God as seen as a Mother, for it is “God who gave you birth” (Deut 32:18). And God comforts Israel “As a mother comforts her child” (Isa 66:13). In the Hebrew language, the word for Spirit (rûaḥ) is a feminine noun. And even Jesus compares himself to a mother hen (Matthew 23:37; Luke 13:34).

God is Gender Fluid

So what gender is God? God is gender fluid. For God, gender is a social construct, therefore God has no sex or gender. However, when related to humans, God dresses up in a gender that suits the social context. In saying that God is gender fluid I mean God may identify as male one day, female the next, both male and female, or neither.

The Way of Accommodation

However, all this talk of God’s gender being fluid is in the way of accommodation, not actuality.

Personality is a limitation, God is unlimited, therefore God is not a person. God is not a being, but rather is the Ground Of Being.

So God is beyond limiting attributes. So literally God is without personhood, gender, or any other limiting quality. It is just that we cannot relate to an abstract. So ultimately it is language that dresses God up so we can relate to God as a He, She, or Them.

Understanding Love

The biblical term for love is agape. It is not a feeling it’s an act of the will. It is choosing the highest good of another solely on their intrinsic value.

Therefore, God is to be loved infinitely, and his good sought first and foremost. And our neighbor’s good is to be sought equally with our own good, because we are all of equal value.

There’s actually a whole sermon just in that definition itself. All humans are of equal value according to Jesus. That’s why we’re supposed to love our neighbor as ourselves. And a neighbor is simply someone who is near enough to do good to.

The Love Chapter

In order to understand love, from the biblical perspective, let us look at what is called the love chapter. I’ll be using the Amplified Bible for this short commentary on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

“Love endures with patience and serenity” (verse 4).

Of course this is dealing with other people. Love endures with patience and serenity, not only life circumstances, but interactions with other humans.

“Love is kind and thoughtful” (verse 4).

There surely is not enough kindness in the world. And few people nowadays are thoughtful. Unfortunately. Most people are inconsiderate and do not think about how their actions affect others.

I will give you an example. I don’t know how many times I’ve been at work, and somebody will be blaring their phone with their favorite music. I don’t listen to secular music, and I don’t enjoy listening to someone else’s music. It is unthoughtful.

“[Love] is not jealous or envious” (verse 4).

To be jealous means that you wish the other person didn’t have what they got. To be envious means to want what the other person has. The best way to be unhappy is to never be satisfied with what you have.

“Love does not brag and is not proud or arrogant” (verse 4).

A person wrapped up in themselves makes a very small package. Love is about an open heart, not a closed heart. Love is about putting other other persons first, not oneself.

How often I see, even preachers, bragging. The truth is, if we do something good, all credit should go to God. If we do something bad, all blame should be put upon ourselves.

“[Love] is not rude” (verse 5).

If you’re being rude to another person, know that you’re not being loving. And furthermore, you’re not being God-like. Holiness is about being all loving.

“[Love] is not self-seeking” (verse 5).

The opposite of sin is love. Sin is self-seeking. Love is not self-seeking. The law is love, therefore, the breaking of the law is self-seeking. It’s putting our interest before God’s and others.

“[Love] is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]” (verse 5).

How often we are easily provoked, overly sensitive, and too quick to get upset. I confess, I still have work to do. How about you.

I’m a tender heart, so I tend to be overly sensitive. Things that would not bother. Some people, bother me. But I’ve learned that to be bothered means self is still there, alive and well.

“[Love] does not take into account a wrong endured” (verse 5).

Unforgiveness is taking into account a wrong one has suffered. It is holding that against the person. Love does not do that. Love forgives. Forgiveness means not holding it against them any longer.

“[Love] does not rejoice at injustice, but rejoices with the truth [when right and truth prevail]” (verse 6).

Love does not rejoice when Injustice prevails. This especially applies to those that are immigrants, strangers, and those we disagree with. Injustice is not limited to what affects us, but it includes what affects others. Especially the marginalized.

“Love bears all things [regardless of what comes], believes all things [looking for the best in each one], hopes all things [remaining steadfast during difficult times], endures all things [without weakening]” (verse 7).

Love looks for the best in each person. It doesn’t ignore the negative, but it looks for the positive. And tries to bring out the best in every person. Because there is, a potentiality in everyone for good.

Love bears all things regardless of what comes. He remains steadfast during difficult times. And it endures difficulties without weakening. Love never fails

Apostolic Succession

The Catholic dictionary defines Apostolic succession as:

“The method by which the episcopacy has been derived from the Apostles to the present day. Succession means successive consecration by the laying on of hands, performing the functions of the Apostles, receiving their commission in a lineal sequence from the Apostles, succession in episcopal sees traced back to the Apostles.

The Bible

The apostles were commissioned by Jesus Christ. Then the apostles, in of turn, commissioned others through the laying on of hands. For example, in Acts 6:6 the early church leaders laid hands on the seven chosen men, conferring on them the authority of ministry.

Another example is in 1 Timothy 4:14. Here Paul tells Timothy not to neglect the gift given to him “when the elders laid their hands on you.”

Ecumenical Tradition

Apostolic succession was an ecumenical doctrine. All churches held to it, including even some gnostics. The only ones that denied it, were those involved in heresy. Which died out.

Churches in Apostolic Succession

Churches that claim some form of episcopal apostolic succession, dating back to the apostles or to leaders from the apostolic era, include:

  1. The Roman Catholic Church
  2. The Eastern Orthodox Church
  3. The Oriental Orthodox Churches
  4. The Church of the East
  5. The Moravian Church
  6. The Anglican Communion
  7. Evangelical Lutheran Church in America
  8. Old Catholics and other Independent Catholics.


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