Self-Hate is Selfish

Self-hate is still self-centered and self-focused. It is self that disapproves of the performance of the self. The opposite of self-love is not self-hatred, it is self-forgetfulness.

Only when we lose self as the center concern and focus, can we truly be free. This is what is meant by the death of self. It is the end of self-focus and self-concern. It is the way of salvation.

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Jay Forrest

Dr. Jay N. Forrest is an Ordained Interfaith Minister and Certified Meditation Teacher who guides others on the Mystic Way through contemplative teaching and interspiritual insight.Since becoming a Christian in 1983 and earning his Doctorate in Ministry, Jay has served within a rich range of Christian traditions—including Pentecostal, Charismatic, Baptist, Methodist, and Liberal Catholic churches—and provided compassionate care as a Hospice Chaplain.His journey has also led him through catechism studies with the Orthodox Church in America, minor orders in the Liberal Catholic Church, and over two decades of Buddhist study and practice. His path is one of depth, integration, and a lifelong dedication to the transformative power of spiritual practice.



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