“You judge by human standards; I judge no one” (John 8:15).
Judgments distort the truth, they don’t reveal it. Judgments narrow our vision so we can only see things from one perspective. And that perspective is always limited.
Understand what a judgment is. It is taking a position. And then you can only see the situation from that position. That means that by making a judgment, you are blinding yourself from all other perspectives.
It is best to look at a situation from all angles.. You don’t have all truth. You don’t see all of reality. Which means then you must be open to different perspectives. And in order to see things from different perspectives, you need to not choose one.
For we are disturbed not by the event itself, but by our judgment about it. Making judgments causes pur suffering. For judgments make us attached to a certain outcome, and when that outcome doesn’t come to pass, we suffer. It’s just best just not to judge.